How to Ask The Right Questions Using Thoughtful Curiosity

The Duct Tape Marketing Podcast with Dr. Amber L. Wright

In this episode of the Duct Tape Marketing Podcast, I had the pleasure of interviewing Dr. Amber Wright. Dr. Amber L. Wright is a communication expert, coach, facilitator, and former communication professor. She helps organizations improve how they make their people feel seen, heard, and valued. As an executive coach and speaker, she guides leaders to express their highest selves with authentic authority and grace. Her popular TEDx Talk, “Ask Better Questions to Build Better Connections,” has inspired people around the world to become stronger communicators in their everyday lives. Dr. Wright has been featured in Fast Company, Essence, and Mashable, and is the creator of Can We Talk? Cards – 50 questions designed to take the guesswork out of small talk.

We talk about the importance of asking the right questions to foster better connections and how self-awareness and active listening are crucial in effective communication, especially in business settings. Dr. Wright’s emphasis on making others feel seen and heard and how thoughtful curiosity can enhance interpersonal relationships. Our conversation also touches on navigating different personalities within teams and strategies for resolving conflicts.

Key Takeaways:

• Every relationship begins or ends with a question.
• Asking open-ended questions invites more profound reflection.
• Self-awareness is essential for effective leadership.
• Listening to understand is more important than listening to reply.
• Thoughtful curiosity helps in asking appropriate questions.
• The relationship with oneself is the most important.
• Questions can help challenge limiting beliefs.
• Understanding personality differences improves team communication.
• Conflict resolution requires understanding the other person’s perspective.
• Engagement in conversations can be enhanced through thoughtful questions.

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More About Dr. Amber L. Wright:

• Check out Amber L. Wright’s Website
• Connect with Amber L. Wright on LinkedIn